What is a Find A Member? What is a Detailed Search? What is a Express Search? What is Cupids List? How do I search a member? How do I Post A Photo? Why is Cupids Messenger sending me members that are too old or too young? Why does Cupids Messenger keep sending me the same members? I recently met someone and I would like to put my membership on hold. How can I do that? How do I benefit from incentives? How do I know I when a member is online? How do I send another member a gift from for Cupid's Shop? Is my information private and secure? What is My Diary? How do I retrieve mail? How do I send mail? How can I stop a another member from sending me mail? How do you calculate the Percent Match?   What is a Find A Member? You can seek a member by their name or a portion of their name. Select this features by the Find A Member tab. Return to Top  What is a Detailed Search? You can seek out a member by series of questions than are similar to the questions in your profile. Select this feature by the Detail Search tab. Return to Top  What is a Express Search? You can seek out members that match a limited series of questions. Select this feature by the Express Search tab. Return to Top  What is Cupids List? This is a list of members that you save in a list. Select this feature by the My Cupids tab or the Cupid icon Return to Top  How do I search a member? You can search members with the Find a Member, Express Search, and Detail Search. Return to Top  How do I Post A Photo? You can post a photo by the camera icon using the browse button, e-mail your photo to photos@cupidssecret.com, or mail your photo to: Cupid's Secret, 27412 Avanti Drive, Mission Viejo, CA 92692. There is $5.00 fee for your Main Photo and $2.00 for each additional photo. Return to Top  Why is Cupids Messenger sending me members that are too old or too young? When you first register, since we don't want to assume what you're looking for in a match, we set much of the Cupids Messenger criteria to "don't care". To change the Cupids Messenger criteria, Go to the "Detailed Search" page, change the search criteria, and click the "Save Answers" button. You can change the "Age" amongst other things. Return to Top  Why does Cupids Messenger keep sending me the same members? Cupids Messenger uses the criteria set on the "Detailed Search" age. You may want to change your criteria to get a different mix of people. We return a maximum of 25 members but if the criteria is too narrow, only a few members will be returned. A different list of members will be returned only if existing members change their preferences or if new members meet your criteria. If you dont have a preference for certain questions, answer "don't care". Go to the "Detailed Search" page, change the search criteria, and click the "Save Answers" button. I recently met someone and I would like to put my membership on hold. How can I do that? Go to the "My Account" page and go to the "Member Status" section. Click "Inactive". When your membership is "Inactive", you cannot search, be searched, send or receive mail or chat. You can change your member status to "Active" at any time. Return to Top  How do I benefit from incentives? You can be rewarded with free membership days, and you can be eligible for free trips. See Incentives. Return to Top  How do I know I when a member is online? A light bulb will be present when seek or view a member, or when the My Cupids is pulsating. Return to Top  How do I send another member a gift from for Cupid's Shop? Visit Cupids Shop by selecting the Cupid's Shop tab or by choosing the heart present icon and select a gift. Cupid Secret will send the gift to the member of your choice. Return to Top  Is my information private and secure? All the information provided to Cupid's Secret is private and confidential. Your My Diary is also private. Return to Top  What is My Diary? This is area where you can make comments in a diary. A purple book identifies this icon. Return to Top  How do I retrieve mail? You can retrieve mail by your opening your Mailbox. This featured is identified by the tab icon labeled Mailbox. Return to Top  How do I send mail? You can send mail when you view a member from their profile, or from a Cupids List and your Mailbox. The Mailbox tab labels this feature. Return to Top  How can I stop a another member from sending me mail? You can block a member by the Selecting the Mailbox icon underscored with Block Mail. This is accessible whenever you click on a Member Name link identified with an underlined blue color.. Return to Top  How do you calculate the Percent Match? The Percent match is based on a total of 34 questions, the same questions you answered during the registration process. 18 of the 34 questions are compared to your registration questions. The remaining 16 question are compared to the answers you give for the Detailed Search questions. Return to Top